Maternity/Nursing Bras

Anita Soft Cup Maternity Bra

 

Buying a maternity bra is not really one of the more thrilling aspects of pregnancy. It is, however, a necessity. If you think your pre-pregnancy bras still fit just fine, you are very likely wrong. And if you aren’t wrong today, you will likely be wrong in a few weeks. Investing in unattractive bras you will only wear for a few months isn’t everyone’s first choice for what to do with your coveted maternity wardrobe budget, but it really doesn’t matter how gorgeous your dress or outift is if your bra doesn’t fit properly, right? And it’s hard to wear nursing bras underneath fitted jersey maternity T-shirts and dresses, as the nursing clips are easily visible.

My suggestion? Buy only two or three maternity bras and be particularly neurotic about cleaning them often. Like I said, you only need them for a few months, so you don’t need to worry about preserving the elastic. And if you find one you like that is particularly comfortable and wears well underneath your maternity wardrobe, buy three of them and be done with it. These bras are purely functional, there’s no need to waste time worrying about monotony in your lingerie drawer.

I recognize that bras are a very personal choice, especially when you are a pregnant woman dealing with new and unfamiliar assets. But my personal favorite maternity bra these days is the Anita Maternity Soft Cup Bra (style # 5162).This bra isn’t going to win any awards for aesthetics–it looks like a bad version of the bras worn by the female characters in Mad Men. But it is very comfortable, wears well under T-shirts and blouses, and it’s very supportive, despite not having any underwire (at a certain point during my pregnancies, I find wearing underwire starts to interfere with my breathing, so it becomes a necessary casualty). This is not an inxpensive bra, as it is priced at about USD $70, and it only comes in white. But I’m one of those women who prefers one very nice bra to three not-so-nice bras, especially at 33 weeks pregnant. Trust me, no one will probably notice you are wearing the same bra every day (and if you have someone who does notice, well, lucky you).

And just a heads up, shopbop.com has finally placed some of its maternity denim on the virtual sale rack today, taking 30% off select maternity pieces from J Brand and Citizens for Humanity collections. Both the black J Brand Maternity Skinny Corduroy Pants and the J Brand Lightweight Maternity 12″ Pencil Jeans are included, as are the white J Brand Straight Leg Maternity Jeans. Sizes are very limited, so I’d click over there ASAP.


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With the huge boom in nursing fashion over the past few years, it’s not surprising that each new fashion cycle provides more answers to the difficult question asked by so many nursing moms when the time comes to take off your sweats and dress yourself up a bit: “What the hell am I going to wear?” Designers like Boob, Milkstars, Japanese Weekend all have lovely, high-quality, practical nursing dresses out on the market that any nursing mom could easily pull off at a cocktail party or a summer wedding.

But what about those occasions when you don’t want to be the nursing mom wearing the practical, but rather obvious nursing dress? What if you want a great dress that, well, just looks like a great dress? Few nursing designers have yet tapped into the notion that yes, nursing moms need to have consistent access to their breasts, but not all of us always want to look like we are seconds away from disrobing.

Heather Lehmann, a young mom and new nursing designer out of Colorado, seems to be blazing a path in that direction with her new line of nursing dresses and tops. As you can see from these photos of Heather Lehmann’s Spring 2011 collection, her dresses look like spring items your non-pregnant, non-nursing self might have selected. The nursing access is designed by using discreet zippers placed horizontally or vertically in the seams of the dresses. The Marie dress at left has a vertical zipper positioned underneath the arms while Lehmann’s Jane dress, pictured at right, has artfully placed smocking above the breast. When it’s time to nurse, a zipper hidden under the smocking pulls horizontally to provide access.

My favorite of Lehmann’s cleverly designed pieces is the Audrey shirt dress, which is available in black, khaki, and chambray and appears to be one of this season’s must-have casual, cotton shirt dresses, but also just happens to provide nursing access through a vertical zipper covered by the faux pockets. Check out this catalogue photo of this model pumping through her dress pockets!  I love it. Well done, Heather, PF is not easily impressed when it comes to maternity fashion, but I am officially awed by that idea.

All of Lehmann’s nursing dresses are priced between USD $120 and USD $160 and are available in her online boutique. Lehmann’s collection also includes nursing blouses and tanks designed using the same premise as her dresses, i.e., does my nursing top actually have to look like a nursing top? The Eleanor tank, which is available in white, navy, and coral, is another one of my favorites and sells for USD $91.

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Who says you can’t look sexy and alluring in nursing lingerie? Well, I do actually. And so do most women. It’s a really tough time to feel at all appealing, esepcially if you a first-time breastfeeder. Being able to feed your baby from your own breasts is a beautiful concept, I know. But damn, it’s messy and it can be an incredibly inconvenient and truly un-sexy process.


Since its founding in 2007, New Zealand-based HOTmilk lingerie has been doing a very, very good job of trying to make nursing women feel sexy. Indeed, HOTmilk’s Spring 2011 line is just out for sale here on its website and the collection includes these two new nursing sets entitled “Her Tangled Web Tantalised” and “Destruction Followed Her.” The names alone make leaking, swollen breasts seem somehow less disgusting.

Should you own a drawer full of HOTmilk’s nursing sets? It’s certainly an appealing idea, but not so practical. Functionally speaking, these are actually great nursing bras. Easy nursing clips, comfortable fit, supportive underwire, etc. But these bras are just a little bit much to serve as everyday nursing bras.  They need to be handwashed, which can be a bit inconvenient when you have to wash them after every wear. A drawer full of basic white, black and nude-colored nursing bras is obviously a much more reasonable option if you are stocking your lingerie drawer.  But should you invest in one or maybe even two HOTmilk lingerie sets in case Date Night is unexpectedly resurrected? Absolutely. These are beautiful pieces of lingerie, and they basically mandate that you get off that donut pillow and join your partner for a romantic evening.

If sexy isn’t your thing, HOTmilk also does cute pieces that are a bit less…well, suggestive. My personal favorite of all of the HOTmilk sets is this Sweet Reminiscence camisole set. It’s cotton and doesn’t have any underwire, so it’s easier to wash and with this set, you just won’t feel like it has to be a special occasion when you wear it. You can take that nice hot shower you’ve been looking forward to all day and put this on…even if you are headed straight for an evening of nursing on the donut pillow. The Sweet Reminiscence camisole is currently on sale here for USD $39.99. You can buy the set with the matching bikini briefs here for GBP £44 (USD $68).

And, if you are interested in what is going to be “hot” on the pregnancy and parenting front in 2011, iVillage.com has a new slide show up here detailing all of the anticipated parenting trends for the coming year. Slide #10 features HOTmilk nursing lingerie and was authored by yours truly. But much more interesting than the rise of sexy nursing lingerie will be the expected rise in “sex-starved wives” this coming year, which iVillage predicts in Slide #3. I love trends, but that is one most of us would like to stay away from–and, if true, provides all the more reason to buy yourself a sexy nursing bra.

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I have been waiting and waiting for Boob’s absolutely adorable Singoalla Nursing Dress to go on sale somewhere. Priced as high as USD $156 here in the US, this dress is a serious nursing investment. Still, made from 70% Lyocell and 30% cotton, the dress is not only a must-have for your nursing wardrobe, but it is also ecofriendly. And it’s from Boob, which means there is just about no way you won’t love it. But it is now the height of the summer sale season and none of the online maternity boutiques are offering even a mild discount on the dress…which means it is time to take advantage of the weakened Euro and buy this Boob dress from an overseas boutique.

The Irish-based Onceborn Maternity is currently selling the Boob Singoalla dress in coral, black, and denim blue here.  The dress is still full-priced at €85.00 (including VAT) and international shipping costs approximately €15.00. But do the conversion and even with the higher shipping costs, you’ve managed to buy Boob’s Singoalla Nursing Dress at a nicely discounted USD $126. Hey, it’s not a huge discount, but I have found that buying online from European boutiques these days truly makes me feel like I am bargain hunting.

Happy belated 4th of July to everyone, by the way. It was so nice to be home in the USA for the 4th. The boys enjoyed a week away at the beach in South Carolina with their cousins and had a truly American 4th of July. Here they are celebrating the holiday (although, they are actually celebrating the fact that they all got new Toy Story backpacks at Target that day). Hope your long weekend was as fun-filled as their was…

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There are just a few more days left to take advantage of the exclusive promotion being offered to PF readers by Milkstars nursingwear. I first posted about the promotion here, but head to Milkstars website here and type “PREGFASHIONISTA” when you check out for a whopping 25% off anything on the site through the end of June. If you are going to be nursing, you want one of Milkstars’ nursing tops ready to wear when you get home from the hospital. Trust me, you are going to feel terribly unattractive and you will be very oddly shaped. Finding a top to wear in those first few postpartum days while you are waiting for your nursingwear to show up is not fun. I think I cried when I first brought James home and could not find a single shirt to wear. Use this promotion and prevent yourself from having to go through it.

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I can’t take credit for discovering this bra, because I read it about it in InStyle Magazine last month and apparently, Oprah is also recommending it. What the InStyle Editors and Oprah did not take note of, however, is how perfect the Soma Lace Cami Bra is for pregnant women. I can’t tell you how many times I pulled on a maternity dress or a maternity top and suddenly realized that I needed to be wearing a camisole or tank top underneath to prevent too much exhibitionism. Maternity wrap dresses are particularly difficult to wear without something underneath, because as you start becoming very pregnant, the dress is inevitably pulling in all different directions and it’s just too risky to go without an extra layer underneath.

The Soma Lace Cami bra solves that problem. It is not the most luxurious bra I’ve ever worn–i.e., La Perla and Agent Provocateur needn’t feel threatened by Soma. But this bra rightly deserves a place in every pregnant woman’s lingerie drawer, especially as the hot weather approaches. With this bra, you can get away with not wearing a camisole or tank underneath your maternity clothing–on hot summer days, when the last thing you want to be doing is layering, this will be your go-to bra. It comes in ten different colors, and you can choose the padded version here (the Bridget) or the unlined version here (the Brianna). Both styles do have underwire, so if you aren’t wearing underwire while you are pregnant, this bra is not for you. The Soma Lace Cami bra is also currently 25% off at Soma’s website, with the Brianna retailing for only USD $31 and the Bridget for only USD $33. And just think, you’ll be saving money on maternity camisoles, so you can indulge and buy it in numerous colors.

A quick note to the designers at Soma–we need this in a nursing version as well, postpartum women have similar layering-related issues with their undergarments.

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Do you think it is strange to wear nursing shirts even when you are not actually nursing a baby? In this city, you can sometimes find yourself on a street corner standing next to an adult man wearing a gargantuan fur hat and a full-length, double-breasted satin bathrobe on one side and an adult woman wearing a long white sheet with nothing but a rope tied around her waist on other side (this happened to me just yesterday). So, nothing is really considered off-limits fashionwise here in J’lem. But I have recently found myself wearing my new Peek-a-boo nursing top as a layering piece under a sweater or a jacket because these nursing tops truly look and feel identical to the high-end, jersey T-shirts that all of the top contemporary designers are showing. If it weren’t for the very obvious gap across the middle of the shirts, Peekaboo’s nursing tops could easily be mistaken for an Alexander Wang tank or a Patterson Kincaid T-shirt.

In writing about Peek-a-boo, I must first tell you that it is a small Israeli company operating out of Tel Aviv. When founder Noa Vilenski contacted me, I was skeptical, as I am about all Israeli-based fashion (if you’d seen what I’ve seen over the past three years, you would be too). So, I waited to receive the Peek-a-boo nursing tank, sent it to my sister to wear while she was nursing, and then waited till she gave it back to me so I could also wear it myself. But I happily admit my skepticism was off-base, because I am completely in love with these nursing shirts. Noa has managed to design a shirt that provides good, discreet nursing access, but more importantly, looks like something you would buy for yourself whether you are pregnant or not. The key to these tops is the fabric. Noa uses a jersey fabric that is extremely high quality, washes well, and I was pleasantly surprised to find it is even a little bit sexy, managing to hug curves in all the right spots. And, Peek-a-boo’s T-shirts are cut for maternity wear with ruching along both sides, so you don’t need to wait until you are nursing to wear them.

Peek-a-boo even designs maternity/nursing bathing suits–I just love this red suit. Try as you might to blend in at the beach in your sensible postpartum black bathing suit with the long skirt and your huge umbrella, if you are a nursing mom, you are still going to be the lady at the beach with her breast hanging out whom all the kids point at (trust me, I’ve been there). Why not wear something red and fabulous and simply give up on trying to stay under the radar?

As of today. Noa is offering an exclusive 20% discount to PF readers who order their new Peek-a-boo tops through her website. Just email her through the website at info@studio-peekaboo.com and include code “PF2010″ in your email for your discount. You can browse through the current collection on her site here. All basic nursing tops retail for USD $60, nursing hoodies and tunics are USD $65, and the nursing dresses and nightgowns are USD $75. With the discount, you’ll get 20% off those retail prices. These prices include international shipping costs, so there will be no additional charge if you want to order, but don’t happen to live in Israel. This is a great deal being offered by Peek-a-boo for all of you international shoppers–in the few online boutiques I was able to locate Peek-a-boo’s nursing tops, the prices were significantly higher. Peek-a-boo runs true to size and the fabric is extraordinarily stretchy, so definitely stick to your pre-pregnancy size.

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tatafornowtatafornow#2When it becomes time for all of you to shop for nursingwear, I am happy to say that there is now a good selection of nursing T-shirts and nursing camisoles out there from which to choose. When I was first shopping for nursingwear just four years ago, there wasn’t near the selection there is now.  Several nursingwear retailers have also introduced nursing dresses, allowing the postpartum fashionista to spruce herself a bit without worrying about nursing access.

More recently, I was introduced to my first nursing blouse from a new nursingwear company out of San Francisco, Ta-Ta for Now. The designers at Ta-Ta for Now, Grace and Robyn, have kept the working and nursing woman in mind with the Raquel Blouse, because this blouse looks great with a suit jacket or cardigan and is perfect for the office.  This blouse is the best kind of nursingwear because it is extremely difficult to tell it is a nursing top, but you can wear it and not worry about having to take your entire blouse off when it is time to pump in the office bathroom.   I ruined some very nice blouses in my clumsy efforts to pump at the office.

The Raquel Blouse is available in black and chocolate brown and it is priced at USD $59 here at Ta-Ta For Now’s website.  Ta-Ta For Now’s nursing collection currently only includes three pieces–the Raquel Blouse, the Audrey Nursing Dress, and the Vera Nursing Tank.  We need more pieces from this promising company and Grace and Robyn are exactly the kind of entrepreneurial women I love to support though this blog.  So head over to Ta-Ta For Now, plan ahead, and treat yourself to a beautiful nursing blouse.

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bella materna braletMany thanks to my friend here in Jerusalem, Victoria, for alerting me to the going-out-of-business sale currently going on at Breastchester, a nursingwear website with an impressive selection of nursing bras and nursing wear.  The entire inventory is marked down 20% and they carry some of my favorite brands such as Elle Macpherson, Melinda G, Bella Materna, Amoralia, and Bravado.  Shipping is free for nursing bras and panties and there is a flat rate shipping charge of $5 for all other items.  My absolute favorite nursing bra for sleeping, Bella Materna’s Anytime Nursing Bralet, is discounted here from USD $54 to USD $43.20 and is still available in a good range of sizes in both black and nude.  I wouldn’t recommend going for a jog in this bra, as it is not very supportive, but it is perfect for sleeping in.  That trademark Bella Materna fast-drying fabric is especially useful if you are a leaker (like me) and don’t want to have to change your nursing bra every few hours at night.

amoraliaAmoralia’s beautiful Nougatine Nursing Bra is also on sale, reduced from USD $55 to USD $44 here.  This is a beautiful nursing bra to look at–and it does OK in the nursing access and convenience arena as well.  I wouldn’t advise wearing it every day but I found that when you are nursing a hungry baby every three hours and wearing the same boring nursing bras day after day, sometimes it’s nice to do something a little different and wear some nice lingerie–even if you and your baby are the only ones who are going to see it.

leighton  182Speaking of hungry babies, Leighton is 6 months old today and I just want to give him a little shout out.  The poor little guy puts up with a lot for a baby–his three older brothers use him as a punching bag once in a while and they particularly like to try and feed him disgusting things like what they’ve picked out of their own noses.  But at a very hefty 22 lbs, he is positioned to end up bigger than all of them, and I like to think he’ll have his revenge soon enough.

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thumbnail_milkstars_joan_green_2_480x800thumbnail_milkstars_rachel_blue_3_480x800A big congratulations to my friend and the founder of nursingwear company Milkstars, Jamie, who launched her online boutique this week here.  Jamie was a bit stressed that the online store took so long to set up, but this shopping experience was well worth the wait.  This is a beautiful, easy-to-navigate website and is extremely well-designed.  Jamie did a great job of highlighting the beautiful range of vibrant colors in which her nursing T-shirts are available.  And, in honor of Milkstars’ online boutique launch, Pregnant Fashionista readers will receive an exclusive 10% discount from now through the end of October when they type in code “PF COUPON” at checkout. The shirts are currently priced between USD $55 and USD $60.

milkstars_julian_pink_2_145x220Milkstars’ T-shirts come in five different styles, the newest of which are the “Rachel” and the “Joan,” both of which are pictured above. The Julian (named after Jamie’s adorable daughter) is their bestseller and I wore this T-shirt all summer while I was nursing.  In the pictures here, you can see both the shirt with both of the layers pulled down and then how it works as a nursing shirt when you pull the top layer up. The Julian was such a reliable, nice-looking nursing shirt that I chose to wear it on the 12-hour plane ride from Tel Aviv to New York.

thumbnail_milkstars_julian_aqua_480x800Jamie has since updated the design based on customer suggestions, perfecting the fit and adding some length to the bottom of the shirts–always, always a good thing when you are nursing and often forced to contort your body into unflattering positions.  I first blogged about the shirts here back in July.  Despite the changes in style, they are still as soft and wearable as they were when Jamie first sent me a sample last spring.

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