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Anita Soft Cup Maternity Bra

 

Buying a maternity bra is not really one of the more thrilling aspects of pregnancy. It is, however, a necessity. If you think your pre-pregnancy bras still fit just fine, you are very likely wrong. And if you aren’t wrong today, you will likely be wrong in a few weeks. Investing in unattractive bras you will only wear for a few months isn’t everyone’s first choice for what to do with your coveted maternity wardrobe budget, but it really doesn’t matter how gorgeous your dress or outift is if your bra doesn’t fit properly, right? And it’s hard to wear nursing bras underneath fitted jersey maternity T-shirts and dresses, as the nursing clips are easily visible.

My suggestion? Buy only two or three maternity bras and be particularly neurotic about cleaning them often. Like I said, you only need them for a few months, so you don’t need to worry about preserving the elastic. And if you find one you like that is particularly comfortable and wears well underneath your maternity wardrobe, buy three of them and be done with it. These bras are purely functional, there’s no need to waste time worrying about monotony in your lingerie drawer.

I recognize that bras are a very personal choice, especially when you are a pregnant woman dealing with new and unfamiliar assets. But my personal favorite maternity bra these days is the Anita Maternity Soft Cup Bra (style # 5162).This bra isn’t going to win any awards for aesthetics–it looks like a bad version of the bras worn by the female characters in Mad Men. But it is very comfortable, wears well under T-shirts and blouses, and it’s very supportive, despite not having any underwire (at a certain point during my pregnancies, I find wearing underwire starts to interfere with my breathing, so it becomes a necessary casualty). This is not an inxpensive bra, as it is priced at about USD $70, and it only comes in white. But I’m one of those women who prefers one very nice bra to three not-so-nice bras, especially at 33 weeks pregnant. Trust me, no one will probably notice you are wearing the same bra every day (and if you have someone who does notice, well, lucky you).

And just a heads up, shopbop.com has finally placed some of its maternity denim on the virtual sale rack today, taking 30% off select maternity pieces from J Brand and Citizens for Humanity collections. Both the black J Brand Maternity Skinny Corduroy Pants and the J Brand Lightweight Maternity 12″ Pencil Jeans are included, as are the white J Brand Straight Leg Maternity Jeans. Sizes are very limited, so I’d click over there ASAP.


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It’s Thursday, which means this weekend’s Friends and Family Sale at BareNecessities.com is finally on! I have been waiting all fall for this sale. A pregnant woman’s lingerie drawer too often goes neglected, don’t you agree? I know mine does. Use this sale to stock up on basic maternity items from Ingrid & Isabel, Bravado and Belabumbum, among other high-end maternity and nursing designers. Buying the incredibly comfortable Ingrid & Isabel Belly Leggings Loungewear at 25% off could be reason enough to shop the sale. Or, simply replenish that rather ragged-looking Hanky Panky collection.

The sale offers 25% off sitewide (with a few exclusions) from today through Monday, October 31st. Use promo code “FRIEND” at checkout.

Save 25% during the Friends & Family Sale at BareNecessities.com. Exclusions apply, Ends 10.31.11.

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Trying to decide whether you need a maternity slip? You do. Unless you are going to be wearing trousers and jeans exclusively throughout your entire pregnancy (and that’s no fun), you’ll eventually need to be wearing a slip anytime you pull on a maternity dress. Very few maternity dresses are lined and it’s obviously impossible for wrap dresses to be lined. You may be able to get away with just a dress and your skivvies during the first few months, but once things really start bulging in various directions, you’ll need to be wearing an extra layer to smooth things out underneath your dress. Tights and body shapers help, but nothing is more effective underneath a dress than an old-school, full-length slip.

There are maternity slips out there to be purchased, but my favorite maternity (and non-maternity) slip is Commando’s Seamless Slip. This full-length slip comes in two versions: the Commando Tailored Long Slip Accessory and the Commando Full Cami Slip Accessory.

The Long Slip has a V-neckline and hangs 19″ below the waist. This slip is ideal for underneath your longer maternity dresses. It’s tagless and has no seams, so no additional bumps. Commando slips also have a brilliant weight system at the bottom that prevents them from riding up underneath your clothing. It’s not foolproof, but it works better than any other slips I’ve tried at keeping everything smooth and in the right place. Let’s be honest–once you get really big, reality is such that there is just about nothing that’s going to stop you from having to pull and tug at your clothing constantly in order to keep yourself decent.

The Full Cami Slip has a scoop neckline and is cut shorter than the Long Slip. At 18 weeks pregnant and 5’4″, it currently reaches my knees. This is a good piece to wear underneath your maternity tunics and shorter maternity dresses.

Both slips come in both nude and black and have fully adjustable straps. Those straps are a crucial feature because come the third trimester, you’ll want to lengthen the straps so the slips still hang properly. There are only two sizes, S/M and M/L, but I would suggest taking the larger size unless you are very petite. This is supposed to be a form-fitting slip for non-pregnant women and you’ll be grateful for the extra room.

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After four pregnancies in five years, one of them with 13 pounds worth of twins, I am unfortunately an expert in pregnancy-induced varicose veins and consequently, the purchase of maternity compression hosiery. This particular pregnancy, my legs start throbbing as soon as I stand up in the morning and throb until I squeeze them into a pair of these tights. After my last pregnancy, I had full-on surgery to remove a few of the veins that were exceptionally painful and unsightly, but the veins are worse this time around than ever before. My hard-earned advice? Read this posting and buy yourself a pair of these tights preventively, even if you have absolutely no signs of vein-related problems and you have no intention of giving birth to five babies in five years (a very civilized decision, by the way). I didn’t wear these tights during my first pregnancy and only started to wear them once I experienced pain late in my second pregnancy. That was my mistake, the veins were already stretched out by then. Of women who give birth, approximately 30% of first time pregnancies and 55% of women with previous pregnancies develop varicose veins. Wearing these tights a few times a week can only help and hey, your body is going to hell anyway, why not do what you can to give it a little help? Compression hosiery is not comfortable and not generally attractive (more on that below), but really does make a difference in the long term.

So, now that I’ve given you my two cents, which compression stockings should you buy? You may, of course, walk into a surgical supply store and purchase compression tights identical to those your grandmother wore in the 1970′s. But that is no longer necessary, as there are designers out there designing compression tights that are actually somewhat fashion forward. Not all of these designers, however, make Maternity-Specific Compression Stockings. Here is my down and dirty list of what to consider before you make your purchase.

1. Compression. Compression hosiery is available in graduated support levels, starting at 8-15 mm/Hg and topping out at 40-50 mm/Hg (you usually need a prescription for the highest support levels). When you are deciding what to buy, make sure you look for a specific support level in the product description. Stores like a Pea in the Pod and Motherhood Maternity sell “maternity support stockings” with no attached support level. These are not compression stockings, they are regular old stockings with a fancy name and a higher price. Start out with the lowest level of support if you don’t already have varicose veins and increase the support level if you do develop a problem.

2. Pantyhose or Tights? Make sure you know what you are buying. Compression stockings are available in both sheer and opaque styles. As the support level you need grows higher, you’ll be unable to purchase sheer hosiery and you’ll have to go with opaques. That is obviously not at all appealing when it comes to buying nude-colored stockings, as opaque, nude-colored tights are just not an attractive look. But if Kate Middleton can make it work under global media scrutiny, so can you.

3. Full-Length or Socks? You don’t necessarily need to buy full-length tights. Compression stockings are available in the knee-high sock styles and in thigh-high styles. It’s really up to you. I have the worst vein problems in my upper thighs, so I choose to wear tights. If you do not choose to buy tights, you’ll have a wider selection of prices and textures to pick from, as you will not need to buy maternity-specific hosiery. Do NOT buy maternity compression stockings without feet, you’ll be defeating the purpose of wearing them in the first place. The point of these stockings is to concentrate all of the compression in your ankles and then to gradually lessen it as the stocking moves up your leg.

4. Price. Compression stockings are not inexpensive and be prepared to spend at least USD $50 on a high-quality pair. The higher the level of support, the more you will pay for your stockings. If you wear them every day, they should last you three to six months. Once they become easy to put on, you should replace them. Under no circumstances should your compression tights pull on easily.

Italian designer Solidea is currently my favorite among the pack, as their tights are relatively stylish, not ridiculously priced, and the maternity selection is decent. The

Solidea Wonder Maman Stockings come in both sheer and opaque styles. The Maman 140 style offers firm compression of 18-21 mm/Hg, while the Maman 70 style offers moderate compression at 12-15mm/Hg.

Jobst is a more well-known and established, but less style-conscious maker of compression tights. Jobst Maternity Compression Stockings come in a wider array of colors and textures, but are a good bit more expensive.

Sigvaris and Juzo also make style-minded, maternity-specific compression hosiery, but the prices are usually quite high. Amazon has a great selection of these brands and has the best prices. All of the links above lead to Amazon. Take the time to sift through the offerings and find the best price for the texture, color, and support you are looking for. You’ll be surprised at how varied the prices are.

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